Online dating how fast to respond

Why did they choose you and where did they come from? In my last post I talked about online dating photos and how to use them to your best advantage. I recently got some winks from a bevy of men all at the same time. But how would I know?

Does he live nearby or have a distance range that includes your location? What can you tell about him from the profile? Does he seem like a good fit? Most of the time women are eager to respond to men who wink at them. It is an indication of some level of interest and you will want to consider it.

So what do you do? It is good manners to respond in some fashion. You can always write a no thank you letter yourself with a little more detail if so inclined. Either way, the intent is the same. This guy might have winked at several women so you should move quickly if you want to play.

However you decide to respond, take the time to check out all the details of his profile first. But, you have to be realistic. Ultraconservative is one of mine. So, I let him know that. And, I move on to a more realistic match. The key is to be objective about the guy before diving in. How you decide to respond will depend on your ultimate goal.

Send him off nicely and keep looking.


Women who send these kinds of winks and teasers are often too shy, too lazy, too cheap to subscribe or too busy multi-dating to send a real email. Similarly, I choose not to respond to women who simply attach their profile with no note, or who send a four-line generic form letter. Of course whether you respond is your personal preference. The answer of how quickly you should respond to an online dating message (not chat) has a lot to do with whether itís a brand new match or someone youíve been talking to for a while. If theyíre brand new, thereís nothing wrong with .

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